Is non jews forbidden to get married to jews?

i hv a boyfriend-religious wev been 2gether 4 almost 3 yers,he lives in his parents and i ask him many times if i can meet his family n he said no theyll not acept us bec im not a jew,and i ask him if we can go to cyprus to get married and when we come back il do the convertion,so he asked his rabbi n said "NO",its against the rules and the religion,now we canot go 2 cyprus bec thts what the rabbi says,.and this is my question: we love each other and im ready to convert and follow everythingthat he do in his religion,can he not break this law?can he not bring me to cyprus to get married?im only a worker here and not all the years i have a visa,theres a limitation to obtain a visa,so after we get married il do convertion and to marry again here(israel)and his family can accept me as 1 of the members of the family,he shld be the 1 to decides for his self not w/ anybody else isnt it?bec of what he say,i already decide to leave him though he said he loves me but canot do nothing.pls help